Family of Vietnam veteran reveals heartbreaking secret in his obituary

The family of Vietnam veteran Col. Edward Thomas Ryan, who passed away at 85 from intestinal cancer, revealed they knew about his sexuality after he came out as gay in his obituary. Ryan had lived as a gay man his entire life, sharing a 25-year relationship with his partner Paul. Despite fears of being court-martialed for being openly gay during his military career, Ryan was a respected firefighter, chef, and member of various organizations. He was remembered as a true gentleman, with many talents, and his family and loved ones fondly called him 'Uncle Ed.' Comments on his obituary praised his courage and expressed sadness that he felt the need to hide his true self.