Woman excluded from partner's will, raising concerns about future

In a recent exchange on a popular British parenting platform, a woman discussed her worries regarding her long-term partner's decision to leave everything in his will to their children, excluding her entirely. Although they have been together for 14 years and share two children, the couple remains unmarried, which raises new concerns for her regarding her security in the event of her partner's passing. She noted that her partner is ten years her senior, which amplifies her anxieties about her financial future as they age together. The dialogue surrounding this topic revealed a range of perspectives from other commenters, some suggesting that this situation is a clear indication of how her partner views their relationship. Many commenters advised her to consider legal counsel to understand her rights, especially since she is a full-time caregiver. They highlighted that being unmarried could limit her rights significantly, especially concerning shared assets and inheritance. One suggestion included setting up a trust, which could help ensure her access to the home they share, providing a safety net despite her partner’s wishes in the will. Another commenter recommended that she start saving for her own future and consider purchasing a small property that would create financial independence. Overall, the conversation pointed to the emotional weight such situations can impose on relationships, particularly when one partner feels undervalued or insecure about their future. The woman’s feelings of being 'grabby' when discussing financial matters with her partner were echoed in responses urging her to take the lead for her own security. The discussion has sparked wider conversations about the fairness and implications of wills, especially in long-term relationships without formalized commitments like marriage.