Brat Summer: A Trend Revisited Through Generational Lenses
- A young drunk woman complimented Bryony Gordon's orthopaedic clogs.
- Bryony Gordon felt flattered by the unexpected compliment on her shoes.
- The encounter with the drunk woman turned into a unexpected positive experience for Bryony Gordon.
In a recent encounter during a holiday in Greece, a young woman described the author’s outfit as embodying the essence of "brat summer." This term, popularized by pop star Charli XCX, refers to a carefree, rebellious style characterized by casual attire and a laid-back attitude. The author reflects on how, a year ago, such a description might have been taken offensively, but now recognizes it as a back-handed compliment celebrating a woman's defiance of societal expectations regarding appearance. The concept of "brat summer" includes essentials like cigarettes, a lighter, and a strappy top, reminiscent of the author's own youthful summers in the late '90s and early 2000s. Despite the younger generation's belief that they have coined this trend, the author argues that the spirit of being a "brat"—embracing a messy, unrefined look—has long been a part of female identity. This notion highlights a timeless rebellion against the pressure to conform to neatness and perfection. The author’s daughter further illustrates the idea of "brat summer" by pointing out a girl who exemplified resilience during a recent athletic event. This anecdote serves as a reminder that life is about more than just appearances; it’s about the memories we create and the kindness we show to others. Ultimately, the author encourages readers to embrace their summers with humor and joy, cherishing the fleeting moments of life.