Melinda French Gates claims divorce was necessary for her wellbeing

In the United States, Melinda French Gates has responded to her ex-husband Bill Gates' admission that their divorce was his greatest regret, stating that the split was necessary for her well-being. The former couple, who had been married for 27 years, finalized their divorce in 2021. Melinda reflected on the challenges she faced during the divorce, including experiencing panic attacks, which prompted her to seek therapy for the first time in 2014. She emphasized the importance of living one's values within intimate relationships, suggesting that this principle was a significant factor in her decision to leave. Additionally, while Bill Gates has not elaborated extensively on the reasons for their divorce, he admitted to having an affair during their marriage and acknowledged that his relationship with convicted pedophile Jeffrey Epstein contributed to the breakdown of their marriage. Melinda revealed her discomfort with Gates' interactions with Epstein, confirming that their relationship was not the sole reason for their split. Instead, she mentioned a gradual realization that their relationship was unhealthy and that trust had been undermined. After the divorce, Melinda has been open to dating and has expressed happiness in her personal life, indicating that she has received many introductions from friends. She stated that while some men may be intimidated by her achievements, she is not interested in those who cannot accept her status. Her public appearances and remarks also indicate a new phase in her life where she is focusing on her well-being and independence. Bill Gates, for his part, has started dating Paula Hurd, the widow of former Oracle CEO Mark Hurd, further highlighting the new directions both individuals are taking in life. As both Melinda and Bill move forward separately, their experiences reflect the complexities and emotional strains of navigating personal relationships in the public eye.