Parents Change Kids' Birthday Dates to Spend More Time Together
- A couple from Nottingham confesses to lying to their children about their birthdays.
- They change the birthday dates to ensure they can always spend time together.
- The practice has raised discussions about parenting methods and honesty.
In a unique approach to family celebrations, Abbie and Callum, parents of two young children, have decided to shift their kids' birthday celebrations to days when both parents can be present. With Callum's demanding work schedule as an athlete, he often misses their actual birthdays due to training or matches. To ensure their children, Ava, five, and George, three, can enjoy special moments with both parents, the couple has opted to celebrate on alternate days. Abbie, a stay-at-home mother, shared that the idea originated from her own childhood experiences with her mother, Carla Bentley, who also had a busy job. Reflecting on Ava's second birthday, when Callum was away for an away game, Abbie realized the importance of family togetherness during celebrations. For Ava's fifth birthday on August 13, they celebrated early with family, while still acknowledging the actual date with a dinner outing. The couple has faced mixed reactions to their decision, but Abbie believes that most people understand the desire for children to celebrate with both parents. She emphasized that at their young ages, Ava and George are not particularly attached to specific dates, making the adjustment easier. Abbie stated, "It's like 'no harm, no foul'—I genuinely think it's the best thing to do so that they have the most magical day," indicating their commitment to creating joyful memories for their children.