Tulisa reveals brutal fights with N-Dubz led to black eyes and busted lips

In her autobiography 'Honest: My Story So Far', Tulisa Contostavlos reflects on her challenging past as a member of the N-Dubz music group, where she faced physical confrontations with bandmates to toughen up. These scuffles weren't just playful; they were part of her journey to learn how to defend herself amid difficult situations, particularly during a time in her life when she felt unable to seek help from her family due to fears of appearing weak. Tulisa describes her reluctance to admit to her father that she had suffered physical injuries at the hands of others, adhering instead to an unspoken code of never snitching on her attackers. This adherence to street rules contributed to a culture of silence among her peers, which in turn affected her relationships and self-perception. Her bandmates, Dappy and Richard 'Fazer' Rawson, noticed the physical toll these encounters took on Tulisa and felt compelled to intervene in their own way. They engaged in sparring matches with her, which often left her with bruises and cuts but served to empower her and build her confidence in her fighting abilities. This tough love approach led Tulisa to become more resilient in both her personal and professional life. However, the fighting training also led to public scrutiny and speculation, particularly evident during her time on reality television programs like 'I'm A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here!', where fans noted her absence from the show's finale. She later expressed her gratitude for the experience while apologizing to her campmates in social media posts, reiterating her commitment to her former allies while acknowledging her personal struggles. Tulisa's story sheds light on the pressures faced by young artists in the entertainment industry and the unconventional ways in which they may seek to cope with those challenges.