Suicide prevention becomes a family mission after brother's death

In December 2024, Shirley Ballas, a prominent judge on 'Strictly Come Dancing', marked the 21st anniversary of her brother David's passing, who died by suicide in 2003 at the age of 44. In her social media tribute, she expressed deep affection and longing for David, reflecting on their close relationship and the impact of his loss on her and their mother. Shirley, who is involved with mental health organizations, emphasized the importance of supporting those struggling with mental health issues, highlighting her ongoing commitment to the Campaign Against Living Miserably and Suicide&Co. The heartfelt message detailed how David was not just a brother to her but also a protector and a best friend. Shirley revisited fond memories of her brother and expressed her belief that had they known more about mental health at the time, he might still be alive. In her narrative, she shared updates about David's daughter, Mary, noting her growth and strength, which brought her joy despite the sadness of loss. Shirley previously opened up about her brother’s battle with depression, recognizing the increased need for awareness and support in this area. Her own experiences with grief and her son's reflections on losing a loved one to mental health struggles fueled her advocacy. Her family's ongoing conversation about David illustrates how his memory continues to shape their lives, and she remains dedicated to helping others avoid the pain that came from her brother's death. Shirley concluded her tribute by urging anyone who is suffering to reach out for help, underscoring the message that there is always hope even in the darkest times. The anniversary serves as a poignant reminder of not just the loss but also the ongoing fight against mental health challenges and the importance of open dialogue about such issues.