law 'steals her moment' ahead of only child's birth

An expectant mother took to Reddit to voice her discontent regarding her mother-in-law's actions during her pregnancy. The couple had made a conscious decision to purchase gender-neutral clothing for their upcoming baby girl, wanting to create a special experience together. However, the mother-in-law chose to ignore these wishes and arrived with 15 gift bags filled with baby girl clothes, which left the mother feeling overshadowed and disappointed. The mother had been particularly looking forward to the shopping experience, especially since the global pandemic had limited her activities during pregnancy. She had envisioned a unique bonding moment with her husband while selecting clothes for their only child. The unexpected arrival of the clothes disrupted her plans and led to feelings of sadness, as she felt her moment was 'stolen.' In her Reddit post, she acknowledged that her emotions might be heightened due to pregnancy hormones, but she still felt a sense of loss regarding the experience she had anticipated. Other users on the platform offered various suggestions, including politely accepting the gifts and either donating or selling them to purchase items that aligned with her original vision. This situation highlights the complexities of family dynamics during significant life events, particularly when personal preferences clash with well-meaning intentions from relatives.