Tia Levings escapes abusive marriage and reveals trad wife dangers

Tia Levings, now 50, reflects on her harrowing escape from an abusive marriage that began when she was just 19. Living in an isolated urban homestead in Tennessee, she faced increasing control from her husband, who demanded obedience and enforced a patriarchal lifestyle. After nearly 15 years of suffering, Tia found the courage to leave in 2007, motivated by the need to protect her children and herself from escalating violence. Following her escape, Tia sought refuge in a more progressive church and went into hiding with her children until they were safe. Her experiences led her to write 'A Well-Trained Wife: My Escape from Christian Patriarchy,' a book that began as a personal journal to process her trauma. Through her writing, she aims to expose the hidden dangers of the 'trad wife' trend, which she believes can entrap women in life-threatening situations. Tia expresses concern over the glorification of this lifestyle in modern media, noting that it can be appealing to exhausted mothers seeking simplified solutions to their daily struggles. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing the underlying ideologies that promote such lifestyles, which often strip women of their rights and independence. By sharing her story, Tia hopes to reach women who may feel isolated and trapped, encouraging them to seek help and find their own paths to freedom. She believes that awareness and connection can empower those in similar situations to escape their circumstances.