The Life of Thelma "Buddy" Ryan and the Nixon Courtship Revealed in New Biography

In "The Mysterious Mrs. Nixon: The Life and Times of Washington’s Most Private First Lady," author Heath Hardage Lee explores the early life of Thelma Ryan, known as "Buddy," who faced significant challenges after the death of her mother, Kate, when she was just 13. Following Kate's passing from liver cancer in 1926, Buddy took on the responsibilities of managing the household for her father, Will, and her two older brothers. This early experience of loss and duty shaped her character and resilience. The book also delves into the courtship of Richard Nixon and Pat Ryan, highlighting the complexities of their relationship. Pat, a striking and independent woman, was initially hesitant to marry Dick, not due to a lack of interest but because she valued her newfound independence following her parents' deaths. Lee emphasizes that Pat's reluctance was a reflection of her strong will, a rarity for women of her time, who often faced societal pressures to conform. Through a collection of love letters, some previously unpublished, the narrative reveals Dick's romantic pursuit of Pat, culminating in their marriage in June 1940. During World War II, while Dick served in the Pacific, their correspondence illustrated a deep emotional connection, with Pat enjoying her independence in San Francisco. Pat's role in Dick's political career, particularly during the 1952 Senate campaign and his famous "Checkers" speech, marked a significant shift in the public perception of First Ladies, showcasing her as a figure of strength and support in a transformative era for women in politics.