Reddit user confronts dad over homelessness
- A Reddit user was left effectively homeless by their father.
- The user confronted their father about the situation, seeking advice from other users.
- The incident sparked a discussion on the platform about familial responsibilities and support.
In a recent post on Reddit's "Am I the A–hole" (AITA) subreddit, a user known as "OkNumber787" expressed distress over his father's sudden decision to deny him housing, claiming it left him "effectively homeless." The user, a university student working full-time, had an agreement with his father to move back in after his lease ended on September 1. However, just two weeks before the lease expiration, his father informed him that his girlfriend was uncomfortable with him living there, prompting the user to argue that he had been misled and would have sought alternative housing had he known sooner. The Reddit community overwhelmingly supported OkNumber787, with nearly all responses labeling him as "NTA" (Not the A–hole). Many users criticized the father for prioritizing his girlfriend's preferences over his son's basic needs, emphasizing that he had a responsibility to honor their prior agreement. One user pointed out that adults typically provide at least 30 days' notice for housing changes, questioning the father's maturity in handling the situation. Family therapist Rachel Goldberg weighed in on the matter, stating that the father's actions reflect poor parenting and could have lasting repercussions on their relationship. She noted that the father's decision, influenced by a new romantic partner, suggests a troubling dynamic where the new relationship takes precedence over familial obligations, complicating the son's living situation significantly.